Since I've never had sex with a dude, is there any per-cautioninery things you have to do before yall start going at it? Some peoples asses might not be to clean to start fuckin on the spot and some might have to use the restroom before they start but dont have time. So is there anything for a guy to do to prepare to be smashed? haha
I just think it could be nasty if the top pulls out with some stuff on his tip haha
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hahahah great question I also want to know
ReplyDeletewell, speaking as a total top, the bottom needs to always make sure he's cleaned out. A good bottom boy has a routine of cleaning out everyday. There are attachments a boy can be to put on to his shower nozzle that will help him clean out. There are also enema mixtures that can be utilized to help the process. That's really the best you can do. A bottom boy with a healthy cleaning regimen is 99.9% pretty reliable.
ReplyDeleteI take it you subscribe to the Bill Clinton view of "I've never had sex . . ." (In my view, if you've done mutual masturbation and oral, you've had sex. LOL!)
ReplyDeleteWhen I have screwed my partner in the butt, occasionally some shit and lube has come out. (aka "santorum") Doesn't really smell, but it can stain the sheets. Some guys like to prepare to bottom with a whole cleaning ritual, but candidly, I don't know of too many guys who do too much beyond wiping their butts after taking a dump.
If you are planning to be the smashee, it hurts like hell. I have tried. Lord KNOWS I have tried (with rubber dicks, hot water enimas, etc.), but it still hurts to a point that it does not turn me on.
Anyways, if you are planning to test the waters as the recipient of some cock, try it out first using a very small rubber toy. You may quickly find that you are not into it. Or, as some guys find (including some basically straight guys) you might enjoy it in spite of the initial pain. But do it on your own before attempting to perform it "live" so to speak.
Be careful of what you eat if you know you'll be having fun. Also, eat less. Get an emmea from the drug aisle at the store. Use that and then fill it up with water muliplte times until everything from your butt clute is clean.
ReplyDeleteLMAO!! Haha!! TMI!!
ReplyDeleteGood question. As an earlier reader says you can get an attachment that fits on a shower hose then squirt some water in your ass and move to the loo and shit it out. After about 4 or 5 turns you will be clean. As for taking it, a finger, a candle or a dildo don't feel like the real thing. I only tried anal after about 3 years of oral only sex with a guy. Initially it hurts or is uncomfortable but after a while it does not and the sensation of taking it in the ass at the same time as your cock is being worked means that you are having sex both sides. You can also try fucking a guy while someone is in you (ie you're a sandwich) - the possibilities are endless and the anal experience is erotic. So don't be in any rush. Enjoy oral and getting as much as you can and some day when you're really comfortable with a guy, you will want more...
ReplyDeleteMaybe this will help.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9vOEMuV5n0
Wow...talk about a subject where TMI is everywhere. As a bottom when you're clean it is much more pleasureable for you and your top. (See what anonymous above said...it's true but once is enough.) The thing is, don't pressure yourself to do something you are not even sure you'll like. A gentle partner will use fingers...see how that feels before you decide if you want to go farther. (keep that in mind as a top as well.) A lot of foreplay really helps get both individuals ready. Physically, it can be a totally amazing feeling when it rubs the right way in the right position. OK...any more will be TMI. Take care!
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