Saturday, May 14, 2011

told another one!

Tonight I told my soon to be sister-in-law! My older brother just got engaged this past Saturday and his fiance is super cool. They have been dating for THE longest time. Im so glad he finally decided to ask her cause she's awesome. And now that Im livin with him for the summer, I thought I should tell her since Im going to be seeing her a lot.

Tonight we went to see Bridesmaid which was fuckin hilarious!! Its supposed to be the female version of The Hangover and it's pretty close to it. My bro's gf was with her girlfriends and me and my bro met up with them at the theaters. After the movie, me, my bro and his gf went to get some pizza and then came back to my brothers place to chill. On the way home, I asked my brother if it was cool to tell her tonight (she was in a separate car) and he said of course and that she wouldnt care in which she didnt. He was in the shower and me and her were just watching tv. I just was like "I have to tell you something." then I said it. For some reason, this time was by far the easiest. I felt a lot more calm and composed compared to the other times I told people. We talked about it for a couple minutes and that was it. She didnt care and she said she felt honored that I told her lol

It feels like more weight has been lifted off my shoulders since telling her. I love the after feeling off telling someone, its awesome to know that you dont have to put a front up anymore when your around that person. Now I just wish I was completely out hahaha

12 comments:

  1. man thats awesome! I just came on here to comment on your milk post cuz I just watched it. so happy for you man yea it totally does get easier! Good for you, very proud.

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  2. thanks bud :) hopefully it keeps gettin easier! haha

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  3. Socrkid: Good for you! Here's a story about being gay in pro sports, not a player but some one from team management:

    http://www.nytimes.com/2011/05/16/sports/basketball/nba-executive-says-he-is-gay.html

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  4. Good job man! And congrats to your brother as well!

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  5. gay traveller-thanks man! hope things are goin well for you!

    Foc- ya i saw that just the other day. pretty cool to see that and see hows sports attitudes are changin!

    AVG- thanks kid!! :)

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  6. awesome job! I love my sister-in-law and she's the only one in my family, well besides my brother, whom I actually talk to about guys. In fact I'm gonna have lunch with her tomorrow to catch up on the guys in my life lol.

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  7. Discreet Bi- hahah thats awesome man! you talk to your bro about it? im not sure if i would be able to do that lol

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  8. Congratulations... I can appreciate that sensation of relief and am happy for you.

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  9. BosGuy- thanks man! its such a relief to tell anyone haha

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  10. great! Been reading you're last few posts; gonna head back in time when I get some free minutes! lol

    CONGRATULATIONS!

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